Wednesday, November 14, 2012

I am no longer a problem solver

I heard something crazy on yesterday but it really began to resinate with me on tonight... I have always been a problem solver... I always thought that was a good thing. But now I understand that it not as good as I always thought that it was...Tonight I looked up the word solve.. The definition is to find the answer or explanation for; clear up; explain...What I now understand is that does not fix the problem. It only answers the problem.. But the problem still generally exisits. I think about some situations that I have been through in my life. I always thought I was solving things but all I did was explain and rationalize it.So I never got through some things. I never dealt with them... Now as I work through some of my issues I realize that I must begin to resolve my problems. Resolve to reduce or convert by, or as by, breaking up or disintegration.. this is how you getrid of issues and problems. You break them down to they no longer exist. I am learning to resolve all of my problems. I must admit all of my feelings and begin to break it down to accept my feeling and my experiences. This way they have no power over my life. I am working to be a complete person. This is how I will achieve my ultimate goal.