Rebound friends Revealed

It use to hurt so much when my friends weren't there for me the way that I thought or felt that they should. So often I would cry because I felt they didn't care about me. That couldn't be further from the truth. God show me just how much the love and and depend on me.
God revealed this to me just this week. Have you ever noticed the parralel be the spirit realm and the temporal. Quite often we don't go to God until there is a need. (I am guilty of that as well-not throwing stone)I wonder if it hurts God's feelings. But we go to Him when our back is against the wall. Thankfully we did(finally) go to God. He knows that we know that He can meet all of our needs and he is there waiting patiently for us to realize that. This is no difference than out natural friends. They come to you when they want a need to be met. They choose specifically who to go to when there is a need. But what happens is every now and then your need is not met. Why is that I ask myself does this happen. Because we have not secured our relationship with God or our relationship with our friends. God is teaching us that we need to depend on him consistently. He wants to fortify the true essence of the relationship. The true essence of our relationship is trust. That is the same thing that our natural friendships lack. So I am learning to trust God. I don't want to be a rebound friend of God. I want to be a true friend to God where I am His friend and He is mine.. God I don't want be my rebound friend anymore. In you word you called me friend (John 15:14) I love u God...